no really, I’m working over here…

I didn’t get nearly as much done this past week as I would’ve liked. Between the husband being away, the kid not sleeping well and my migraine, writing was sporadic. I did spend a lot of time thinking – which I know looks a lot like I’m just staring into space or at the TV, but honestly, the brain was going a million miles an hour.

The problem is that I have several things that are in the revision and /or copy edit stage, which is cool because revising under an editor’s direction is something I’m really enjoying. But I also feel that whole, I need to start something new, jones rear its head. And I’ve got so many different things I’d like to start to work on that I can’t decide which direction to move in.

I know that when this happens (because trust me, it happens several times a year until I’m happily working on 4 things at once), it’s my mind’s way of telling me that it’s just not ready yet. Still, it’s my natural instinct to fight to get something down on paper because I really like to write and I get frustrated with myself when things aren’t happening. Impatient much? But this process has gotten me through the writing of many books and proposals, and I need to stop fighting it.

What I do make myself do during times like this though, is get ahead on other things – like putting together website updates that I need Bekke’s help with, finishing my bio for the HQ site, ordering business cards and generally trying to get the business side of this writing gig organized.

Anyway, take the quiz – it certainly fits in with the whole brain theme of this post:


You Are 35% Left Brained, 65% Right Brained


The left side of your brain controls verbal ability, attention to detail, and reasoning.
Left brained people are good at communication and persuading others.
If you’re left brained, you are likely good at math and logic.
Your left brain prefers dogs, reading, and quiet.

The right side of your brain is all about creativity and flexibility.
Daring and intuitive, right brained people see the world in their unique way.
If you’re right brained, you likely have a talent for creative writing and art.
Your right brain prefers day dreaming, philosophy, and sports.

Steph T.

Oh, don’t forget to check WriteMinded over the weekend – this week’s winners will be posted sometime on Saturday!

bottle caps and pigeons

What should’ve happened yesterday:
Husband: Want to order a movie?
Me: No! Absolutely not! I have work to do.
Husband: I’m so proud of you and your strict work ethic. Go to it!

What really happened yesterday:
Husband: Want to order a movie?
Me: Sure. And let’s make popcorn too.

But after the movie I did go and work. Normally I can get chapters 1 – 3 down pretty much in order, but that’s not happening this time. For one of the books, anyway. Maybe it will go better today. So I’m headed back to work (no, really.)

But before you go, take the quiz. And really, I do feel for Bert when he tells Ernie to just leave him alone all the time.


You Are Bert


Extremely serious and a little eccentric, people find you loveable – even if you don’t love them!

You are usually feeling: Logical – you rarely let your emotions rule you

You are famous for: Being smart, a total neat freak, and maybe just a little evil

How you life your life: With passion, even if your odd passions (like bottle caps and pigeons) are baffling to others

Steph T.

Happy Mother’s Day!

I don’t even get Mother’s Day off from writing, because of Larissaslavedriver. But hey, an entire day free to just write and then dinner with the husband and the four year old? I can’t really think of anything better. Except cake.

This is just so wrong, btw:


Your Mommy Is Martha Stewart


What You Call Her: Old Lady

What people say about yo momma: Yo momma so ugly she looks out the window and got arrested for mooning.

Steph T.

time of day

I’ve talked about this before, but I think finding the time of day that works best for you, writing-wise, is important. I’ve always been a night person, but that’s challenging with the four year old, because by the time night rolls around I’ve already lived a full-time job. Getting up earlier would make more sense, but it just doesn’t work for me. And for the past couple I’ve months, I’ve gotten back into my night-writing groove. I’ll screw around for a while, but then around nine or ten, things will take off and I’ll write until one or two in the morning. Go to sleep and wake around seven or eight. So yeah, not much sleep, and I’m not sure I could do it if I had to go out into the real world and work. But, staying home with the kid and hanging out in sweats? Totally workable.

Of course, it’s ten now and I haven’t found that groove yet. It’s the getting started that’s sometimes the hardest part, you know? When I’ve got the first few sentences down, I’m like – what a freakin’ fantastic job I have!! I love this!!

You’d think, knowing that would make the getting started easier.

Anyway, if I’m procrastinating, then you should be too! (See – only children CAN share ;) )


You Are Midnight


You are more than a little eccentric, and you’re apt to keep very unusual habits.
Whether you’re a nightowl, living in a commune, or taking a vow of silence – you like to experiment with your lifestyle.
Expressing your individuality is important to you, and you often lie awake in bed thinking about the world and your place in it.
You enjoy staying home, but that doesn’t mean you’re a hermit. You also appreciate quality time with family and close friends.

Steph T.

Happy Easter

I’ve already eaten one chocolate bunny. The others have gone into hiding, but I’ll find them.


You Are a Chocolate Bunny


A traditionalist, you secretly want to dress up like a bunny. And not just on Easter.

Have a great day, all!! Enjoy the sugar high.

Steph T.

my past life

Link swiped from PBW.

Your past life diagnosis:

I don’t know how you feel about it, but you were male in your last earthly incarnation.
You were born somewhere in the territory of modern South New Zealand around the year 1425.
Your profession was that of a builder of houses, temples and cathedrals.

Funny, I would definitely have thought I’d be something military…

Your brief psychological profile in your past life:
You had the mind of a scientist, always seeking new explanations. Your environment often misunderstood you, but respected your knowledge.

Misunderstood? Of course, like the writing out-of-order thing. It’s beginning to all make sense now…

The lesson that your last past life brought to your present incarnation:
Magic is everywhere around you, even in the most usual, most ordinary situations. Your lesson is to understand this magic and to help other people to see it, too. You are a magician!

Do you remember now?

I’m loving this. I’m going to send a copy to Larissa. Maybe then she’ll thank me for helping her see the magic.

Steph T.

tidying up

I’ve been keeping a little too busy with RL, judging from the dust around this place. Going to clean up and get back on the horse, so to speak, in the next few days. I’ve got to post more, update my sidebar, etc. But I have been writing – DI is inching forward slowly but surely. I wanted to have another full ready for Blaze, no matter what happens with the revised full that’s already there.

Larissa read part of DI and you know what she’s worried about? That I’ve got TOO MUCH PLOT!!! That had NEVER happened, so even though it’s a problem, it’s one I’m really enjoying this time around. Because this is the book I wrote the synopsis for before I wrote the book (that’s where Larissa first pointed out the, too much plot, problem. I was too busy doing the, I wrote the synopsis before I wrote the book, dance, to fix anything at that moment. Why do that, when writing the book is so much more fun than worrying about the synopsis?) Anyway, no matter what happens, it’s been an interesting experience having all this plot ahead of time and worrying that I might actually be over word count. Not that I really understand what word count is supposed to be for a Blaze anymore.

So, for the time being, I’m going to go battle the migraine I feel coming on and try to write. You need to procrastinate a bit and take the quiz. I’m seeing that my tarot card is very telling, although it might’ve been better titled, Woman Hanging Above The Orcas with Cape:


You Are The Hanging Man


You represent the seeking of enlightenment and spiritual clarity.
You tend to confuse others, but your oddities seem deeply satisfying.
Self sacrifice is easy for you, especially if it makes you a better person in the end.
You are the type of person who is very in touch with your soul and inner spirit.

Your fortune:

Right now is a good time for reflection and meditation.
You should stop resisting the problems in your life, and let yourself be vulnerable to them.
You may need to sacrifice something important to you to move ahead in your life.
Accept your destiny with courage, and learn to let go of what you think you need.

Steph T.

Shakespeare quiz

I’m making slow but sure progress on chapters 4 – 6 of DI, mainly because I finally realized what I needed to change to make it all work. It took about ten pages of free writing, which is really another form of babbling to myself, to figure it out. And today’s horoscope for Aries looks pretty good too:

Very few times over the course of a year, the universe taps us on the shoulder and lets us know, via a great big coincidence, that today is our lucky day. This one is yours. Now that you know, imagine all the options you’ve got. The first, of course, is to jump right on any chance you come across (as long as it doesn’t cost you anything you can’t afford, of course) and see what happens

So, while I’m waiting for all the luck and universe tapping, I decided to swipe this quiz from Bonnie:

Hamlet
You are Hamlet, from the play Hamlet(duh)
You are intelligent and feel things deeply.
You look for someone who understands you and is
able to help you find answers. Circumstances in
your life cause you to hide what you really
feel from others.

Which Shakespeare Character are You?
brought to you by Quizilla

Steph T.

Happy 2006

Since I don’t like making New Year’s Resolutions, I’ve decided to let a blog quiz make them for me. It seemed harmless enough.


Your New Year’s Resolutions


1) Get a pet parrot

2) Eat more escargot

3) Travel to Holland

4) Study communism

5) Get in shape with naked yoga

Steph T.

reindeer quiz

I’d never make it in this company:

The time-honored office tradition of whining at the water cooler just might get you fired, according to a newly compiled list of workplace horrors around the world. Two workers who exceeded the official limit of two moans per employee at one unnamed German firm were fired this year. Several colleagues quit before their moans could be counted

Luckily, the only ones who hear me whine on a consistant basis are the husband and the four year old, and both of them know that if they got rid of me, there’d be no one to do the laundry.

And now, since it’s almost Christmas, here’s a little holiday quiz. I’m not sure I’ll ever look at Santa’s sled the same way again.


You Are Blitzen


Always in good spirits, you’re the reindeer who loves to party down with Santa.

Why You’re Naughty: You’re always blitzed on Christmas Eve, while flying!

Why You’re Nice: You mix up a mean eggnog martini.

Steph T.